I have so many dear, kind, and wonderful friends. I am TRULY blessed. I have teared up several times today because of the kind words and deeds of my friends. I feel so very fortunate, and so very spoiled. And so very loved beyond all reason.
Even when I try not to obsess about my birthday, I end up wallowing in it. Oh, I'm not worried so much about how old I'm getting, (but OMG!!) rather how much I end up thinking and talking about it. Perhaps this is because I was the baby by so many years. My birthday was always a big deal. (And then the oldest one starting doing the math, somewhere around 1985, and started saying "If you're x, that means I'm...Oh, dear God, let's not EVEN talk about THAT!" He's 16 years older. You do the math. ;-) )
Sometimes, making your own birthday cake, and taking it somewhere to share, is more fun than letting someone else make it.
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| The Cake. Complete, and ready to go be shared with starving choristers. |
It tastes marvelous, though.
So, this morning, I finished preparing the cake and made the frosting. I took a lovely walk while the frosting cooled.
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| The neighborhood kiddos are off to school. The kids around a few years ago really loved Mr. Bear when we were out walking in the mornings. I miss that dog. |
It was a beautiful morning, and I am so grateful for the lovely weather. What a nice birthday gift, based on the weather Monday, and what has been predicted for from Friday on. So nice to have had this glorious, beautiful day.
I came home, and decided to have a special breakfast before I tackled cake assembly.
While I was eating, I checked my Twitter feed. I found a link to this Instagram post:
After breakfast, I frosted and assembled the cake. After resting up from that, I did a few dishes, and got myself cleaned up.
This is the outfit I wore, my dark wash Levis, (size 6!) and my new sweater from Target. (With a turquoise tank top underneath.)
Thus arrayed, I gathered up the recycling, and set out to do that one chore, and then shop!
My especially sweet and loving husband had told me to buy something I wanted/needed and consider that my gift from him. So, I went to Dick's Sporting Goods and got some new walking shoes. (Okay, I also got two pair of really nice leggings for working out and walking. One flare leg, and one fitted.)
After that stop, I walked next door to Target, and found a few odds and ends, like a yoga mat, some hand cream, and a new suitcase to replace the roll-along carry-on that Matt had. (It died finally, after a long and thoroughly useful life.)
After I made my Target purchases, I headed over to Kohl's, one of the best places to score bargains on clothes and household linens. I didn't really NEED any new clothes, but I thought it couldn't hurt to look. I found several things, including two new shirts for Matt. Everything I bought was on clearance, and I had an "extra 15%off" coupon they had sent me in the mail. I spent $112, but I got more than $200 worth of items. Kohl's always has good deals.
This was my full cargo area when I got home with it. After I got it all in the house, I set out the items from Kohl's on the bed to go through them. Then I tried on the dress that I only paid $10.00 for. I had tried it on in the store, but without the shapewear I found to go with it. Below is how the dress looks on me. It's a bit snug on the top. Will probably wear one of my fancy shawls with it when I wear it out in public. I love the color, though, and you can't beat the price!
After I got all the stuff I bought put away or sorted out to wash, I put workout clothes on and headed out for another walk. No pictures this time, because the phone battery was in dire need of charging.
Right after I got changed, the doorbell rang. There was a nice lady from the florist there with a lovely arrangement of flowers. My dear friend Fi and her husband Geoff and her son Hayden sent me a beautiful bouquet of aromatic flowers for my birthday. I am so touched by the kindness of all my friends, but this almost made me cry. So very sweet, and so very beautiful. Almost as beautiful as Fi's heart. I love that girl. We've never met in person, but we have a real connection as people, in spite of distance. I owe her about a dozen hugs when we DO meet in person.
When I got home from my walk, my wonderful, loving, and long-suffering husband was home waiting for me. His hugs and kisses are always the best thing. Especially nice on my birthday, since we've missed a few of those over the years due to deployments, training, and regular airlift missions. All these years since he retired have been making up for the time we missed. He's aged, of course, and so have I, but this is how I still see him, my Knight In Smelly Flightsuit.
He highly approves of the new dress, and the exercise leggings I bought. (Anything form-fitting, and he's happy. Some things NEVER change! ;-) )
We had a nice, light supper of Caesar Salad and grilled chicken breast, because we knew the cake after choir rehearsal was going to be RICH. It was. Oh, so very delicious. Proud of my efforts in that regard.
The choir sang Happy Birthday to me, which is a tradition in our bunch. (This is the 19th birthday I've celebrated since joining this choir. Hard to believe it has been so long. That's a lot of Sunday services sung, a lot of Christmases and Lents and Holy Weeks and Easters. I spend more time with these gifted musicians than I do with my family on holidays. ) I really love St. Paul's and I am especially fond of my fellow choristers. The blend we can achieve, it is transporting, moving, absolutely magical sometimes. I am SO very fortunate to be able to sing with this group.
The choir (and our fearless leader, Canon Musician H. Scott Raab) dug in to the cake, and managed to eat most of it, by taking slices home to spouses and other family members. I'm all for that, I have to still be able to wear that $10 dress I bought!!
Here's what we have left of the cake:
I am grateful to my fellow choristers (and Scott!) for their willingness to save me from my own birthday cake!
So, now I'm home, and typing up this blog post so I can remember all the wonderful parts of one of the best birthdays I've ever had! Sitting here listening to Pink Martini, and drinking a dry Martini. Life is SO good.
This has been a busy day. I have a few ideas about how to use tomorrow in my quest to share and spread the joy I have been gifted with. I won't be detailing those little activities. I think random kindnesses are best done in secret. (Do not blow trumpets when you give your offering, as some do, for truly, they have received their reward. Do not let your right hand know what your left hand is doing, and your Father who sees in secret, will see your gift, and your reward will be stored up for you in Heaven. -A very rough paraphrase, but that's the idea, anyway.)
The reason I write blog posts like this is so that I can look back in the future and remember all the wonderful things that happened on this special day. It has indeed been a special day, made so by the love of my friends. Many thoughtful friends who took the time to send their love and best wishes my way. From a busy actor (and I mean he's SERIOUSLY busy right now) who took time to send me a birthday greeting, to all the friends and family near and far who sent messages, cards, gifts, and most importantly their love. That love is what keeps me from having any serious self pity and depression any more. When I was younger, I was very fond of self-pity. For no good reason, I've had a very blessed life, but it was easy to fool myself on this score. No longer. Friends on social media, around the world make it impossible for me to feel so alone anymore. People ask after me when I am not online. All of us #Perlgirls check on each other, and we try to keep track of our favorite actor, too. We care about the guy. He makes us laugh. He's good people. Really. He stands by his values, and he remembers his friends. He appreciates his long time fans.
I also happen to work for one of the best public institutions going. Our library system is always looking for new ways to bring our customers what they need and want to improve the quality of their lives. Things to read, watch, listen to, programs to teach them things, or give them the opportunity to explore issues, a place to meet, a place where it's safe to just sit and hang out, a place where you can ask just about any question, and not only will your privacy be respected, but no one will look down their nose at you for asking. The people I work with are all smart, funny, quirky, friendly, and caring. They are also absolutely dedicated to your freedom to read. Library work is a lot like teaching in that you don't go into it expecting to make a bunch of money. This isn't a job, it's a holy calling. Education, intellectual freedom, and the maintenance of an important community resource are what we value. Very proud to be a part of such a great institution.
So, time to wrap this up. Birthday Vacation Week still has a couple of days left in it. Perhaps a voice lesson will happen, perhaps a trip to the car dealer to get the oil changed, all depending on what the weather does Friday. (Guess I better get cracking tomorrow on that list.)
Thank you my friends,including Ron Perlman, whom I DO consider a friend, my family, my coworkers, and especially Matthew, for making this such a lovely day for me. I am SO happy. I don't know if I'll ever stop smiling.
“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
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